Amen sister, My ex n i just recently got back to but only after months n months of communication on a friendship basis n some growin on both of our parts we both realized tht the love was still there n the communication lines were open we've both grown so much n now hes my best friend who im marrying next year, Amen couldn't have put it in better words, I had a Ex that would Hack my Facebook MySpace at the time and he got all Mad when he found I meet someone New he tried to Stop My Love he tryied everything you can think of and it Didn't work , Im struggling now with reason#3 I know she doesn’t deserve me and everything is just going to be the same as it was when I left but the illusions the mind gives you of happiness and love kinda reminds me of the song remember the time by the K.O.P Mj for the youngins I know its best for me without her but after 5years of living together being engaged and two beautiful boys my heart feels obligated to her even though I know I wouldn’t be happy ..its been months and part of me wants to put up with the bullshit and the smart half of me us like see ya im a very family oriented man I feel naked without my family I still see my boys but it just doesn’t feel the same. Thank you for this article…Feeling real guilty about being with a man that was a narcissist and I did not respond in a very Christian way..Struggling to forgive myself and this article will help-It addresses all the issues I dealt with….Praying God will help me forgive him as well…Going back the last time when he said he changed I realized the love and HOPE was gone…. Keep us informed! To do this you have to make yourself as invisible as you possibly can. I don't love her. I messed up by not giving him attention, I now realize I had put everyone as being more important than him(my22 son with a MH/subs abuse issues, my 85 yr. old moms needs-every Saturday, teaching responsibilities during the week-lessons grading etc., finally, moving to PR and having to adjust to a new culture. I finally get that now. I wish I could just pcik up the phone and tell him how I feel. That we didn’t just fight all this time to get and keep this relationship when in reality that person was never meant for us to begin with. At any point, I have forgiven him and work on continuing to do so every day. Listen to what your gut tells you about them being the wrong person or it being the wrong relationship or wrong timing. omg. I got back with my ex boyfriend after 11 years. Sep 13, 2016 Sep 7, 2013 by James Nelmondo. Good job! How Long Should I Wait For My Ex To Make Up His Mind? Chelsea Fagan. Why on Earth would you want to be with someone who thought you were second best. . AND, some folks need to adhere to an EX is just that EX for a reason.-, Darn right…Sounds like plain common sense to me… <3. so why would I think now it will Change. Even if you get back together, the new relationship won’t have a solid foundation. The relationship wasn’t what they want to believe it was and their minds are clouded by so many things. I agree with the comments here. I'm close to my divorce date. I get a lot of emails from people wondering if they should get back with their ex. I completely understand your position on taking an ex back but I don’t want you to apply that to all because of the situation you experienced. So read slowly and carefully. The best reason to not go back to your ex is that there are so many other and better fishes out there in the pond. Keep yourself away from the situation for some time. They will stalk their twitter, facebook, and every person they think he or she may be dealing with romantically. If you want to get your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend back, you need to start focusing on yourself and sort out why they broke up with you or why you broke up with them. Read This If Your Ex Hasn’t Contacted You, What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games. You are the only one who can decide whether to give him another chance or not. In this article, I’m going to give you a 5 step plan that will teach you how to win back your ex by magnetically drawing him back in – and keeping him there once he’s back. I'M IN A NAMELESS RELATIONSHIP WITH MY EX WE SEPARATED IN 2000 AND YET WE HAVE STILL BEEN DOING FWB I GUESS,HOWEVER I'M NOT FULFILLED WITH EMOTION OR COMPANIONSHIP WISE WHEN I TRY TO TALK OR EXPRESS HOW I FEEL OR TELL HIM THAT I WANT MORE HE NEVER RESPONDS .WE HAVE SEX AND I HAVE NO SATISFACTION AFTERWARDS HE SEEMS SELFISH WHEN IT COMES TO SHEARING OR GIVING ME THE THINGS I DESIRE YET I KEEP GOING BACK. I am trying to get an ex back after a 10 yr. relationship. A little doubtfulabout what or if love awaits but anger and bitterness eats you up I know I don't want that! They might be hidden deep down, disguised by a lot of anger, mistrust and even feelings of betrayal, but to some extent, they are definitely there. #3 is a killer. Chelsea Fagan founded the blog The Financial Diet. Separating reality from wishful thinking is notoriously difficult after a breakup. Work as a team to come up with solutions for what went wrong in your relationship, and let the excitement and sexual tension build with time. I just want you to be able to move in a positive direction and not one that is being weighed down from the disappointments of the past. I was the fool once, no twice for letting him come back. 7 – They are using your family or friends to get to you. That is how I am feeling now. So many times our desire to take that ex back isn’t because we are really “in love” with them. I want to appreciate priest tokubo for helping me to get back my ex with his powerful power, i tried all i could within my power to get my ex back but no result until i found a testimonies of how tokubo helped people to get thier ex back online,now am happy with joy in my heart to share this good news that am living a happy life with my ex now because my ex is back to me. My ex for 2 days now blatantly disrespected me when angry quite a number of times inthe past few weeks. Couldn't have said it better myself!!! You want to know how to get your ex back. Thank you, this put things into perspective! They’re rushing you into a relationship because they know if they take things slow, you might see that nothing is any different. If the way he was when you dated wasn’t life threatening, you don’t feel threatened now and part of you really wants to go, then go and see what happens. If you’re not sure if you should take back your ex but a part of you believes that your ex really has changed or is doing the best they can to be a better partner to you, then give them a chance even if part of you thinks getting back together will be a mistake. Now, standing on the brink, I'm questioning. No kids) The ex gf before me is still around. I am available to help have the discussion. 2. Not to say that I want my ex back because I honestly don't…But what I will say is that I know a few people that need to read this and understand that they must forgive so that they can heal…don't allow what you have been through in past relationships to dictate what happens in future relationships.. Common sense without Godly wisdom Benita, doesn't work for a rebellious person. I don’t want to go back to the way things were. I know I have gotten back with a couple exes because I “put in too much time” to just let it go without a fight. 1- Don’t Try To Get Your Ex Back This is the first thing that you need to do, not try to get him/her back. Im not sure if he answers behind my back but why is she still calling after all these years? Avoidant Ex – Attract Back An Avoidant – 9. Reach out with some corny “I have something to tell you” script, accountability statement or video. You've answered everything I was wondering. The thing is, most of them have no business trying to entertain getting back with their ex. and I clearly remember on asking him why did he want to marry me after walking out on me while I was pregnant we never argued never got violent w each other he responded w he wasn’t ready to be a father bc of fear that he would fail at it and fail our son and I was the only woman he truly loved and I’ve been the only one by his side and put up w everything and a woman like me he would never find nor could be replaced yes I love him and I only got into the relationship to forget him but through the years I have still loved him in silence and my ex knew but the relationship dragged along to 4yrs and the other day I received a text message from my son’s father that he wants to see his son and I but I got scared I didn’t know what to answer I feel ashamed of even have him see me bc of what I did please help. 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